Why You Should Join a Herpes Dating Site or HPV Dating Site
May 20, 2010 by Tainted Touch
Filed under Featured, Relationships
Why should you join a site like Positive Singles?
To develop a relationship and socialize with other people who have herpes or HPV? It’s natural human behavior to select partners who have similar interests and backgrounds, so having herpes or HPV might not seem a likely factor that would draw people together.
Positive Singles works for many reasons:
- Many people living with sexually transmitted diseases (also known as STDs) like herpes or HPV have been afraid to date, for fear of rejection, or simply for fear of transmitting herpes or HPV to their partner
- Many singles have a list of "deal-breakers" rather than "deal-makers." On Positive Singles, herpes dating and HPV dating are the standard, not the exception, so there is no social stigma, no uncomfortable "talk" to give
- Positive Singles allows you to remain as anonymous as you wish while you’re getting to know a potential suitors.
- Positive Singles offers dating and friendship options for people with a wide variety of personal preferences, such as straight, gay, and bisexual options, as well as interracial dating
- Herpes and HPV don’t define you, but judgmental people will make hurtful decisions. Here, you won’t be judged for something you can’t control
- Many people with herpes or HPV haven’t told their closest friends and family about their STD status. They just want to share their experiences and date others with STDs like Herpes and HPV because people with Herpes and HPV tend to already understand what it’s like to live with it.
- PositiveSingles.com has a very large cross-section of members of all ages, backgrounds, and walks of life. Herpes and HPV do NOT discriminate! On Positive Singles you will find people with oral herpes, genital herpes, frequent outbreaks, infrequent outbreaks, HSV-1, HSV-2, genital warts, low-risk HPV, high-risk HPV, people who have had a cone biopsy, a LEEP procedure, or even cervical cancer or penile cancer
- Positive Singles management and support team provides a high quality of customer service, ensuring you the best experience, whatever you are looking for, whether you are interested in herpes dating, hpv dating, meeting other herpes singles, viewing herpes personals or pictures, herpes support chat, herpes support message boards, HPV support chat, HPV support message boards or looking for information about herpes and HPV social and support groups and events
- Positive Singles is a fantastic place to visit and we encourage participation. We encourage you to join Positive Singles today for free, even if you just want to visit and "check things out" anonymously. It’s a welcoming online community of people with Herpes and HPV where lasting friendships are made. Although set up as a herpes and HPV dating and social website, Positive Singles has become a caring community of thousands of people. You can be as anonymous as you want, and membership is free, although you can upgrade if you want full access to all site features. Join Positive Singles – the Largest Free Herpes Dating site!
Positive Singles is an safe online community where people meet for dating and socializing, where you can find friendships or romantic connections.
There is no herpes cure, but with Positive Singles, you can find lots of herpes and HPV support and information, success stories, as well as the internet’s largest herpes dating site, where people with herpes and HPV meet and you can move beyond your diagnosis to living again and discover there are lots of people like you who are looking for people like you. Join the Free Herpes Dating site!
Spreading Herpes to a Partner
April 26, 2010 by Tainted Touch
Filed under Relationships
Question:
I was dating a guy for about two months. Before anything sexual happened we had "the talk". He didn’t know anything about Herpes so I did my best to explain it to him.
He is a professional, well educated 48 year old man. I had been married for 10 years and also in a relationship with a man for 1 year that I’ve had unprotected sex with – both their choice. Neither of these men ever showed symptoms which made me feel better about not spreading it. Although I am fully aware someone can carry the virus and not show symptoms.
I was with this man less than ten times and he chose not to use a condom twice. The last conversation we had was him telling me he had contracted the disease and needed time to figure out how he felt about it.
Up to this point we had a very open honest relationship. I told him I’d give him the time and space he needed. It’s been a week and I haven’t heard a word from him. In the meantime I’ve decided that if he does want to continue the relationship I don’t think I’d be doing it for the right reasons. I don’t see a future with him.
I feel guilty, but also know I did my part telling him ahead of time.
Should I have done more?
Response:
I don’t know the extent of what you told him about Herpes, but you did tell him and he’s a grown up. He made his decision. He could have done more research on his own if he felt he needed more information.
Do you know if he was tested prior to you two becoming intimate?
How was he recently diagnosed?
Without knowing the answers to those questions, I have to wonder if he really did get a Herpes outbreak and if he did, do you really even know he got it from you?
It’s a shame you’re feeling guilty right now. You’ve done nothing wrong.
Obviously I don’t know if he would feel that you led him on–and I’m only talking about your feelings for him and the direction/duration of the relationship, not about HSV.
If there’s no major commitment, feelings change. I wouldn’t feel too bad about wanting to end it if that’s how you feel.
Herpes Dating Success Story – Thank You PositiveSingles
April 23, 2010 by Tainted Touch
Filed under Featured, Relationships
I guess I never really gave any thought to whether or not there may be a herpes dating site, I just thought of support groups. I did not let herpes keep me from dating whomever, but I think there is a practical side to dating from our community. I’ve known for over two years, and he only knew for six months. I emailed Nick a few days before my month ended and got a response the same day. We met on Christmas the day my membership expired. Everyone says we were matched so well. I wish I knew about this site when I found out that I had herpes. It would’ve been so much easier.
Advice to other members:
Regardless of how you contracted your std, accept it, and know that it does not reflect on your value as a person, and this site is a source of support and being practical.
Sign up for your free and private profile on Positive Singles today!

